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Coach LoLo with Academy 4 fourth grader, David One of my (many) struggles working with teens to develop life skills is helping them to build self confidence. Confidence to speak up, question everything, make decisions, resolve conflict or simply navigate systems and processes. I find myself thinking "These are skills our youth should've been exposed to and practicing when they were in elementary school." So instead of adding this thought to an endless mental list of complain

Inconsistencies in their story, avoiding eye contact, sudden changes in behavior, or defensive reactions when questioned. It's likely they are lying. Research indicates that over 90% of teenagers lie to their parents, making it a common defense mechanism used to protect their privacy, avoid conflict, or escape disappointing you. Control Your Initial Reaction Take a pause: Catching a lie triggers a physical stress response in parents. Breathe deeply and step away if you are to

Finding peace can feel like a challenge for many teens today. Between school pressures, social expectations, and the constant buzz of technology, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. Protecting your peace means creating space for calm, balance, and self-care in your daily life. This post shares practical ways teens can guard their mental and emotional wellbeing, helping them stay grounded and confident. Protect your peace. Understand What Disturbs Your Peace The first step to prote

Whether you agree with Avery Lockhart or not, its refreshing to see youth standing up for themselves and others. Who is Avery Lockhart? : @iamaverylockhart Besides being a trans conservative, first and foremost Avery Lockhart is a beautiful human being who came into my life and family in 2024. Perhaps seen as "different" by others, I see the passion in her soul for God, love, and family. Avery Lockhart on @getradicallyreal podcast. Avery is also an example of today's youth

Discipline Over Feelings. Every. F**king. Time. Feelings are liars. They'll tell you to stay in bed, skip the workout, procrastinate about the "Get Sh*t Done" (GSD) list and chase comfort. Discipline doesn't care if you're tired, bored, or unmotivated, it shows up anyway. It's often difficult and uncomfortable, but that's where progress and growth thrive. You don't build the life you want by following your moods. You build the life you want by keeping promises to yourself whe

"15 Things Teens Wish Their Parents Knew: Insights from a Teen's Perspective" Understanding the Teenage Mind As a coach, I empower individuals and families to build stronger relationships. My focus is on bridging communication gaps, especially between parents and teens. Here are 15 things teens wish their parents knew, told from the perspective of a teen. 1) Not Every Conversation Has to Be a Lesson Sometimes, teenagers just want a friend. You’ve been there with them for over

Executive functioning simplified. Executive function refers to life skills used to manage everyday tasks like making plans, solving problems and adapting to new situations. Here are the 8 executive function skills defined. Impulse Control - The ability to stop and think before acting. Self Monitor - The ability to view and evaluate oneself. Emotional Control - The ability to manage feeling to achieve goals and complete tasks. Flexibility - The ability to changing conditions b

Poularity is a scam. “Popular” kids are not exempt from having problems, setbacks, or struggles of their own. Before you decide that life would be better if a certain group liked you, ask yourself if you even like this group and how they behave. Being included doesn't guarantee respect, and being liked isn't worth losing your true self to fit in. Stop comparing yourself to others. This is guaranteed to lead to disappointment. There will always be someone with more than you

Calm parenting isn't passive. It's strong, steady leadership. Calm parenting isn't passive. It's strong, steady leadership. Correction isn't wrong. Timing is everything. You're playing the long game. Strategies for Effective Communication Effective communication is essential in parenting. It helps bridge the gap between parents and teens. Here are some strategies to foster better conversations: 1. Pause Instead of Pouncing When your teen snaps, "Why do you always do this?" t

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Technology plays a huge role in teenagers' lives today. While it offers many benefits, too much screen time or unrestricted access can lead to problems like poor sleep, reduced physical activity, and social isolation. Parents face the challenge of guiding teens to use technology responsibly without causing conflict or rebellion. Setting clear, healthy tech boundaries helps teens develop good habits and balance their digital and real-world lives. Parents and teens managing tec

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Compliment more than criticize. Listen more than lecture. Say "yes" when you can. Find shared interests. Keep conversations low pressure (car rides, walks). Validate their feelings. Respect their privacy. Pick you battles. Spend your time on safety and core values. Model what you want to see. Keep family rituals alive. Coach LoLo • Parent-Teen Life Coach • Parent Permission Grantor • Teen Motivator • Parent-Teen Relationship Rescuer